Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Is it that look in her eyes?

I found this on deviantart i think, and I really love it. The image screams possessiveness to me. holding him close and knowing he's yours. Having someone you care enough about that you'd fight to keep them and fear losing them? That's a possessive kind of love that I appreciate. Look at her, she's screaming at you to fuck off with her eyes because he is HER man and she won't share. Love it. And he's willing surrendering to the heat in her embrace. Because he's staking his claim too. She is his and he is hers. Beautiful.

You ever have those days when the innocence is all you want, the memories all you need? Speaking of....

beautiful work. Captures the essence of the movies perfectly. 

People need to know that they shouldn't have to change who they are to satisfy others. Who you are is amazing, you don't need to fit into others' ideas of perfection. Perfection does not exist. But you need to accept yourself before others can accept you. Or love you. 

You have no idea how much she needs to know you think she's pretty or beautiful. It is so important to tell her how you feel. If she's put effort into feeling beautiful, tell her because otherwise she'll feel crushed, like her effort was wasted. And when her hair's a mess and she's merely in pjs or bumming round the house clothes, if you think she's looking adorabley cute. tell her! People really need to start telling things how they see them. Course if you think she looks ugly I probably wouldn't mention that, you might earn yourself a slap.  What I'm saying is  be honest but be smart, you don't want to hurt someone's feelings.

And ladies, if he's looking damn fine, tell him! You might preen his swollen ego but sometimes men are far more sensitive and insecure than we believe. Turns out they need the boost just as much as we do, sometimes more. Never let your man (or friends) feel unappreciated, unattractive, or undesirable. Guys are more fragile than they appear. 
Plus they can be kind of slow so if you want something, or they fucked up be blunt, just tell them coz they really have no idea what your hints mean, that's if they even notice. My new years resolution (aside from the one about being nicer to my sis) was to be more honest, not that i really have a problem with honesty, but I dont want to send mixed signals anymore. If I want something I'm going to say it, because im sick of misunderstood when I simply havent been clear enough.